Tighten up LLProcess pipe support, per Richard's code review.

Clarify wording in some of the doc comments; be a bit more explicit about some
of the parameter fields.
Make some query methods 'const'.
Change default LLProcess::ReadPipe::getLimit() value to 0: don't post any
incoming data with notification event unless caller requests it. But do post
pertinent FILESLOT in case caller reuses same listener for both stdout and
stderr.
Use more idiomatic, readable syntax for accessing LLProcess::Params data.